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Let's put this way....some of the nicest women I've worked with were abused divorced women. ..not that you had to be but women catch on to the head games they played out

I just keep my boundaries up I'm around a ton of liars. I've hated it at work.....I at one time worked with a woman who said they could ruin my life......I found out why all the fawning .

Once they invade your space they don't respect your privacy or boundaries. Then they play turn about.....I'd suggest distancing yourselves from them. You posted a great video. Ty

Going through this at the moment. Live in a cul-de-sac and been bereaved one year a go. Since bought a car jealousy comes to mind Carol

My husband hated his mum because of emotional neglect. She was always working next door. His son now hates his mum for no good reason. Whats the cure??

My husband hated his mum because of emotional neglect. She was always working next door. His son now hates his mum for no good reason.

Grandma was sexually abused. Hates men…. Granddaughter is lesbian…. Have seen this several times. Intergenerational trauma?

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My twin sister is a sadist. She has been nothing but dark and weird my whole life. I have no contact with her now. But it was like having someone for no reason try and erase me. She was perpetually scheming and doing things to harm me. I had barely even comprehended the first thing before she would move onto something else. One of the schemes she did was to damage property. Lke wooden furniture , she would ruin things like my dads desk in his study. It looked like a pit bull had gone at it. She would do it at night and when my dad discovered the damage in the morning. Due to the damage being in the form of my intials chiseled into the wood repeatedly, different sizes and ad-hoc pattern. My father would go straight to my bedroom and drag me out of bed. I would be woken up by ny skull bouncing off the floor. Repeated blows as i would be dragged to the scene of the damage. Which i was seeing for the first time. Would be continued to be beat whilst demanded to know why i did it. Of which i couldn't answer because i didn't. I was seven years old, she had many different ways to turn my dad into a weapon. This went on for years. Through out my first decade of life. She turned both parents against me. Would humiliate me public every opportunity. Try and destroy every relationship in my world. It was like she never had 5 minutes off. When she wasn't enacting one of her grand designs i would get the feeling she was brooding and planning it. It was weird it was like having an active enemy that i couldn't fall asleep around. She wanted to be a boy, there was this aspect were i think she envied my biology sex. She was jealous of not my relationship with my dad because it was never good. But she envied the position of a son. She wanted to be a son. She eviscerated me from my own life. I have no relationship with any family member. She has never left the family home. We are both 44 now. She is like a baby bird that hasn't left the nest. She has my mum wrapped around her finger. She manipulates the entire narrative. Completely controlling. It's like being trapped in a self serving fantasy narrative were she is the writer, director and main star. She has never felt like a real human being to me. I was 30 the last grand design she did on our birthday publicly at a big extended family gathering. After that i walked away from the family. I am the black sheep in my family.

Thank you again Tamara. I'm so grateful for your channel 💕..blessing's to you 🙌🏾

Very Well Said Sounds Like My Back Stabbing Family Stabbing My Son And Me Taking About Us And Treating Us Like Trash And The Family Members Not Even Talking About Their Own Family After Me Helping Them Y I Just Moved Away Thank God For Leading Me To The Right Place 🕊️🙌

Thanks so much 😊 ❤

They called it head games ..it's not even funny.. toxic people live to reduce u.ty for posting

The work environment describes the church i left 😢

But isn't it plain lack of upbringing: growing up with zero discipline, with no habit of self-analysis and self-reflection, and growing up in a physically unsafe environment and in mentally abusive environment? When you allow a child anything without any consequences: not correcting selfish behavior nor rewarding proper behavior, but just letting them grow wild/be raised by the streets or abusive family environment... aren't such circumstances going to naturally result in psychopathy....rather than having a lack of mental medicines? Normally, when we are born, we don't respect anyone naturally. If we don't like something, we scream and yell. Respectful behavior: manners, consideration, politeness are not inborn. We have to be trained to say "thank you", to not interrupt others, to be patient....just like we have to be trained to take a shower and brush our teeth every day. Without such training, we just grow into selfish and savage homo-animals running around..... So I believe psychopathy is a natural result of growing up with no restrictions on anything and no discipline....

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Just staying away all together helps geez

Are you single? I think you are Beautiful

Im being stalked by my daughter my neighbors and the police here in Denver does nothing about it. God will protect n fight against these monitoring spirits. I am tired. They are jealous demons

My family My ex co workers got very touchy I know about ego and passive agressives.i grew up around the town bully I studied. I still do not half the knowedge some women do Im older. Its been lonely...its a hard path i cose to walk

"Misogyny in women" is somehow a concept that I hadn't quite understood as well as just now, because of that exact description. For some reason, when i think of misogyny I usually just think of men, and somehow gay men or transvestites. I think that's because of associations with patriarchy. Now, female bullying, and female relational aggression feels more understandable. Competition due to ego, for example. I feel that approaching such people with compassion for the idea that they may have developed brain damage is a fair way to attempt conversation with them. If an ego is fragile, perhaps it just needs an opportunity to change, despite the idea that people often say that trying to change other people can be a lost cause, or that narcissistic people don't change. Edit: Sorry, I should say that brain damage can just be a lack of nurturing and healthy lifestyle, or access to one, and help with cessation of bad habits and bad luck. My family grew up on canal water. I think it's a good explanation for our physiological issues which become mental issues. Overworking, too. Nurturing requires a lot.

My husband walked away 2 yrs ago. I see a Happier person since he walked away...

24:14 I thought in many cases it's a mix of self-entitlement and the ability to be frustrated by things I mean, in my mind, all people can be mentally exhausted and become easily irritated, not everyone can hold back their annoyance - as well as not all people care, BUT to plan venting your frustration on some innocent people - this is just pure evil. I call it "to assert oneself at the expense of others"

Amazing, soo interesting! Appreciate your input and knowledge! I was wondering if the leading world cultures are death cultures, that pretty much celebrate death and conquests then the mind of many original races have been manipulated ( mainly with religions like cristianity) creating various problems within their societies, causing dysfunctional families which was the key point in the psychology of enslavement by William Lynch, to cause division between the enslaved races to enable absolute domination and control today also over the work force, then what must we do to protect our goodness in this World and enjoy freedom? Found an interesting video on DNA today : ruclips.net/video/G7ZlCwn2rW0/видео.htmlsi=UFwR4hR-zmlDSgXi Blessings! ☀️✨

Excellent video Tamra!!

Excellent Commentary!

You’re super cute! 😍🥰😘

Thanks U watching 6/30/24

Mine didn’t do any of the nice stuff, they tried to take me out like a covert sadistic gangstalking cia hit squad.

Just be honest with them, and the toxic ones will leave you for dead.

It's scary but important to acknowledge that psychopaths really do live and walk among us, although it's only 1% of the population, it seems like 1% too much. Ever heard of Ariel Castro? He kidnapped three young women in the early 2000s and kept them prisoner in his house and abused them horribly for a decade. Thank goodness they were able to eventually escape. But the fact that Castro was able to get away with it for a decade surrounded by neighbors and keeping up appearances in a densely populated city in such a way that no one around suspected he had these women chained up in his house is just insane. Anyway, hope you feel better in time for the next live!

Hi Tamara!. I just finished watching this live you just did last night. Chilling, yet informative! We've all heard the expression "The eyes are the windows to the soul." I've found this to be true in regards to the psychopathic stare. I've caught snippets of the court trials of serial killers and other various violent criminals. In almost all of them, you really can see it in their eyes, as if they are lacking a soul. It's quite creepy.

My stalkers normalized stalking.

I tried telling my therapist and she told me I was just making it up. I wish understood how scary and dangerous these people are and how easily they fool others.

Keep up the good work. Subscriber here 👋🏽👋🏽

The Other side of the equation is when the empath child dose not capitulate to the controlling parent and becomes the "Black Sheep". Then there is a price to be paid. the parent withholds or shows little to no interest in that sibling's well being. That is the worst " one is left to figure things out by ones self ?

My neigbhors do this often.ive done nothing to them other than asking for my parking spot to not get blocked...he called me a bitch ... I refused to open my door to this man.His dons a policeman

Everyone may not agree with me, but I have turned to Jesus, the source of my healing! I don't know what I would do without Him!❤🙏

Estrangement from family and grandkids (created by the dark triad w sadism) to keep support away from the other family members. Sick and extremely difficult to deal with.

Not you describing my former therapist that I just fired this month. 😮

Anger usually comes out in passive aggression. I use to work for four Drs...get was always jealous my grampie was fireman. He'd try to bully me by saying " everyone gets burned " I just ended a ni etee. Year friendship .I'm done with toxic people.